The staff on your cruise ship is there to make your trip more enjoyable and less stressful. You'll have people cleaning your cabin each day, serving you food and bringing you nearly anything you could ever want or need, and it's a wonderful feeling to get that kind of service.
That said, you should remember that
cruise ship staff members frequently work 12+ hours a day and most days of the week. Many leave their families in another country for months on end while they complete their contracts, and much of their work is labor intensive.
Be nice to the staff, be appreciative and remember that you get back what you give. If you treat the hard-working cruise staff with respect and kindness, you'll receive the same treatment and have a much more enjoyable trip as a result.
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